Faith comes when God leads and shows you who you are in Christ. Jesus authors faith in you, which leads to grace.

Saturday’s Featured FREE Book: “How God Will Transform You”
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Pastors, teachers, and leaders, revitalize your church. Take a look at the series of sessions with roleplaying exercises to learn question-based conversational apologetics. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No canned pitches. Casual conversations. Bad ideas self-destruct in the daylight.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You see who you are in Christ and what Christ is commanding you to do right now. That’s when faith comes and gives you access to grace so you can do what God commands you to do.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

You see those around you. For those who are born again, you see them after the Spirit. You see Christ in them. You see who you are in Christ and what Christ is commanding you to do right now. That’s when faith comes and gives you access to grace so you can do what God commands you to do. When you yield to the point of obedience, the Holy Spirit transforms you. The Holy Spirit peels off one layer of that fleshly veil and builds Christ in you more fully.

If you see other Christians or yourself as the fleshly nature, you fill your mind with the things of the fleshly nature. If you see other Christians and yourself as the spiritual nature, you fill your mind with the things of the spiritual nature. If you fill your mind with the fleshly nature, you create death in your entire being. If you fill your mind with the spiritual nature, Christ creates Life in your entire being. If you fill your mind with Christ, you stay connected to Christ. Then, Life and peace spring up in you. You see Christ within yourself and others and you become what you see. When you see Jesus Christ as He is, a many-membered body on earth joined to the Head in heaven, you become like Him. Why do you become like Him? You’re changed because you fill your mind with the Spirit of Christ Who reigns in righteousness over your mind.

Fitting into Christ’s Body

The Kingdom of God isn’t an individual effort, but God is chiseling you and shaping you to be a stone in His Temple. Holiness is Christ formed within. You become the part of the body of Christ God created you to be. As a member of the body of Christ, you would be irrelevant if you weren’t in your place in the body of Christ. You wouldn’t be walking in obedience to the Spirit of Christ if you weren’t in your place in the body of Christ. Just as a finger becomes useless if it’s cut from the body, so you must know how you fit into Christ’s body. Just as a shoulder out of joint causes pain, you must know how you fit into Christ’s body.

God reveals the pattern of the body of Christ through Scripture. He speaks of it throughout the Bible. He also speaks to you about disorders. You see disorders in the body of Christ and you know by intuition those disorders aren’t what God has in mind for His body. God points them out to you. At other times, you see something you know is right and good and according to God’s plan. The Holy Spirit will continue to refine your spiritual senses as you walk with Him into maturity. You’ll more easily know the difference between good and evil as you continue to follow the Truth up the Pathway toward the Life. The deceivers will find it harder to deceive you.

Saturday’s Featured FREE Book: “How God Will Transform You”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/how-god-will-transform-you/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, revitalize your church. Take a look at the series of sessions with roleplaying exercises to learn question-based conversational apologetics. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No canned pitches. Casual conversations. Bad ideas self-destruct in the daylight.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

For those who are born again, you see your spiritual brothers and sisters after the Spirit. You see Christ in them.

Friday’s Featured FREE Book: “The Nuts and Bolts of Being Rational”

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Pastors, teachers, and leaders, can this work to bring life to your church? Could this grow your church and bring a new level of unity and maturity to your members? Take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. Don’t fear to probe and listen. Lies self-destruct if you can get them to expose themselves.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You see those around you. For those who are born again, you see them after the Spirit. You see Christ in them.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

God doesn’t just tell you what to do. He speaks a vision of hope into your heart. This vision is like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings. This is a spiritual mirror, so you don’t see your fallen, natural self. You see your spiritual self. You see Christ in you.

And you see those around you. For those who are born again, you see them after the Spirit. You see Christ in them. You see who you are in Christ and what Christ is commanding you to do right now. That’s when faith comes and gives you access to grace so you can do what God commands you to do. When you yield to the point of obedience, the Holy Spirit transforms you. The Holy Spirit peels off one layer of that fleshly veil and builds Christ in you more fully.

If you see other Christians or yourself as the fleshly nature, you fill your mind with the things of the fleshly nature. If you see other Christians and yourself as the spiritual nature, you fill your mind with the things of the spiritual nature. If you fill your mind with the fleshly nature, you create death in your entire being. If you fill your mind with the spiritual nature, Christ creates Life in your entire being. If you fill your mind with Christ, you stay connected to Christ. Then, Life and peace spring up in you. You see Christ within yourself and others and you become what you see. When you see Jesus Christ as He is, a many-membered body on earth joined to the Head in heaven, you become like Him. Why do you become like Him? You’re changed because you fill your mind with the Spirit of Christ Who reigns in righteousness over your mind.

Friday’s Featured FREE Book: “The Nuts and Bolts of Being Rational”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/the-nuts-and-bolts-of-being-rational/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, can this work to bring life to your church? Could this grow your church and bring a new level of unity and maturity to your members? Take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. Don’t fear to probe and listen. Lies self-destruct if you can get them to expose themselves.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

God gives you a vision that’s like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings

Thursday’s Featured FREE Book: “Encyclopedia of Logical Fallacies”
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Pastors, teachers, and leaders, can you imagine your church members springing into life and action for Christ? Take a look at the class for small group or homeschool to learn a new friendly form of apologetics. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No lie can stand up to the Light.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You have five keys. First God speaks, but when He speaks, he doesn’t just tell you what to do. He speaks a vision of hope into your heart. This vision is like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings. This is a spiritual mirror, so you don’t see your fallen, natural self. You see your spiritual self. You see Christ in you.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

You have five keys. First God speaks, but when He speaks, he doesn’t just tell you what to do. He speaks a vision of hope into your heart. This vision is like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings. This is a spiritual mirror, so you don’t see your fallen, natural self. You see your spiritual self. You see Christ in you.

And you see those around you. For those who are born again, you see them after the Spirit. You see Christ in them. You see who you are in Christ and what Christ is commanding you to do right now. That’s when faith comes and gives you access to grace so you can do what God commands you to do. When you yield to the point of obedience, the Holy Spirit transforms you. The Holy Spirit peels off one layer of that fleshly veil and builds Christ in you more fully.

If you see other Christians or yourself as the fleshly nature, you fill your mind with the things of the fleshly nature. If you see other Christians and yourself as the spiritual nature, you fill your mind with the things of the spiritual nature. If you fill your mind with the fleshly nature, you create death in your entire being. If you fill your mind with the spiritual nature, Christ creates Life in your entire being. If you fill your mind with Christ, you stay connected to Christ. Then, Life and peace spring up in you. You see Christ within yourself and others and you become what you see. When you see Jesus Christ as He is, a many-membered body on earth joined to the Head in heaven, you become like Him. Why do you become like Him? You’re changed because you fill your mind with the Spirit of Christ Who reigns in righteousness over your mind.

Thursday’s Featured FREE Book: “Encyclopedia of Logical Fallacies”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/download-encyclopedia-of-logical-fallacies/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, can you imagine your church members springing into life and action for Christ? Take a look at the class for small group or homeschool to learn a new friendly form of apologetics. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No lie can stand up to the Light.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

Identify with Christ–not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Wednesday’s Featured FREE Book: “Exposing the Real Creation-Evolution Debate”

Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/exposing-the-real-creation-evolution-debate/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different.  Never be afraid to ask someone with a godless argument how they know. If what they say isn’t true, they can’t give you a rational answer. They expose the foolishness of the lie when they try to give a reason for the lie.

https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh; but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace, ~ Romans 8:5-6

You have five keys. First God speaks, but when He speaks, he doesn’t just tell you what to do. He speaks a vision of hope into your heart. This vision is like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings. This is a spiritual mirror, so you don’t see your fallen, natural self. You see your spiritual self. You see Christ in you.

And you see those around you. For those who are born again, you see them after the Spirit. You see Christ in them. You see who you are in Christ and what Christ is commanding you to do right now. That’s when faith comes and gives you access to grace so you can do what God commands you to do. When you yield to the point of obedience, the Holy Spirit transforms you. The Holy Spirit peels off one layer of that fleshly veil and builds Christ in you more fully.

You go where you look. If you look at your carnal fallen nature, that’s what you will follow. If you look at Christ within you, that’s Who you will follow. If you look at your brother and sister in Christ and see their carnal fallen nature, you will become more carnal. If you look at your brother and sister in Christ and see the ministry, the Christ, within them, you will become more like Christ.

Wednesday’s Featured FREE Book: “Exposing the Real Creation-Evolution Debate”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/exposing-the-real-creation-evolution-debate/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different.  Never be afraid to ask someone with a godless argument how they know. If what they say isn’t true, they can’t give you a rational answer. They expose the foolishness of the lie when they try to give a reason for the lie.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Tuesday’s Featured FREE Book: “Your Metamorphosis”
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Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new learning system about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No lie can stand up to the Light.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

The Christ in you can do no sin. Christ, Who is born within you, can’t sin.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

The Christ in you can do no sin. Christ, Who is born within you, can’t sin. You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh; but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace, ~ Romans 8:5-6

You have five keys. First God speaks, but when He speaks, he doesn’t just tell you what to do. He speaks a vision of hope into your heart. This vision is like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings. This is a spiritual mirror, so you don’t see your fallen, natural self. You see your spiritual self. You see Christ in you.

And you see those around you. For those who are born again, you see them after the Spirit. You see Christ in them. You see who you are in Christ and what Christ is commanding you to do right now. That’s when faith comes and gives you access to grace so you can do what God commands you to do. When you yield to the point of obedience, the Holy Spirit transforms you. The Holy Spirit peels off one layer of that fleshly veil and builds Christ in you more fully.

Tuesday’s Featured FREE Book: “Your Metamorphosis”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/downloads/free-download-your-metamorphosis/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new learning system about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No lie can stand up to the Light.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You can’t reform your carnal nature. It must fade away.

Monday’s Featured FREE Book: “How to Walk in God’s Glory”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/downloads/free-book-download-your-high-calling-in-christ/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new roleplaying system about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. Never be afraid to ask someone with a godless argument how they know. If what they say isn’t true, they can’t give you a rational answer. They expose the foolishness of the lie when they try to give a reason for the lie.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

You can’t reform your carnal nature. Your carnal nature must die. It must fade away.

(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

You can’t reform your carnal nature. Your carnal nature must die. It must fade away.

The Christ in you can do no sin. Christ, Who is born within you, can’t sin. You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh; but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace, ~ Romans 8:5-6

Monday’s Featured FREE Book: “How to Walk in God’s Glory”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/downloads/free-book-download-your-high-calling-in-christ/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new roleplaying system about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. Never be afraid to ask someone with a godless argument how they know. If what they say isn’t true, they can’t give you a rational answer. They expose the foolishness of the lie when they try to give a reason for the lie.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

The Spirit gives life; the flesh profits nothing.

Sunday’s Featured FREE Book: “Real Faith & Reason, Volumes One, Two, and Three”

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Pastors and teachers, take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No lie can stand up to the Light. Active listening can draw your friend’s ideas into the daylight. Bad ideas self-destruct in the daylight.

https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

The Spirit gives life; the flesh profits nothing. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life. ~ John 6:63
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

The Spirit of Christ lives in you. He has become part of you. He can do no sin. He only does what’s right and good.

The Spirit gives life; the flesh profits nothing. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life. ~ John 6:63

You can’t reform your carnal nature. Your carnal nature must die. It must fade away.

The Christ in you can do no sin. Christ, Who is born within you, can’t sin. You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh; but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace ~ Romans 8:5-6

You have five keys. First God speaks, but when He speaks, he doesn’t just tell you what to do. He speaks a vision of hope into your heart. This vision is like looking into a mirror since you see yourself and your surroundings. This is a spiritual mirror, so you don’t see your fallen, natural self. You see your spiritual self. You see Christ in you.

Sunday’s Featured FREE Book: “Real Faith & Reason, Volumes One, Two, and Three”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/download-the-christians-real-faith-reason-journey-series/

Pastors and teachers, take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No lie can stand up to the Light. Active listening can draw your friend’s ideas into the daylight. Bad ideas self-destruct in the daylight.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

Carnal nature can’t do anything good. The Spirit of Christ lives in you and can’t sin.

Saturday’s Featured FREE Book: “How God Will Transform You”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/how-god-will-transform-you/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, revitalize your church. Take a look at the series of sessions with roleplaying exercises to learn question-based conversational apologetics. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No canned pitches. Casual conversations. Bad ideas self-destruct in the daylight.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

The carnal nature you have can do no righteousness. It can be openly evil or it can be self-righteous, but it can’t please God. The Spirit of Christ lives in you. He has become part of you. He can do no sin. He only does what’s right and good.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

Your carnal nature isn’t sort of bad. It’s evil. It’s wicked. The carnal nature you have can do no righteousness. It can be openly evil or it can be self-righteous, but it can’t please God.

The Spirit of Christ lives in you. He has become part of you. He can do no sin. He only does what’s right and good.

The Spirit gives life; the flesh profits nothing. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life. ~ John 6:63

You can’t reform your carnal nature. Your carnal nature must die. It must fade away.

The Christ in you can do no sin. Christ, Who is born within you, can’t sin. You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh; but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace, ~ Romans 8:5-6

Saturday’s Featured FREE Book: “How God Will Transform You”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/how-god-will-transform-you/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, revitalize your church. Take a look at the series of sessions with roleplaying exercises to learn question-based conversational apologetics. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. No canned pitches. Casual conversations. Bad ideas self-destruct in the daylight.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

Your carnal nature isn’t sort of bad. It’s evil. It’s wicked. So is mine.

Friday’s Featured FREE Book: “The Nuts and Bolts of Being Rational”

Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/the-nuts-and-bolts-of-being-rational/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, can this work to bring life to your church? Could this grow your church and bring a new level of unity and maturity to your members? Take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. Don’t fear to probe and listen. Lies self-destruct if you can get them to expose themselves.

https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

Your carnal nature is no better than mine. Your carnal nature isn’t sort of bad. It’s evil. It’s wicked. So is mine.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

Paul didn’t identify with his carnal nature. And neither should you identify with your carnal nature. You HAVE a carnal nature, but you ARE the Christ within. Your carnal nature is no better than mine. Your carnal nature isn’t sort of bad. It’s evil. It’s wicked. The carnal nature you have can do no righteousness. It can be openly evil or it can be self-righteous, but it can’t please God.

The Spirit of Christ lives in you. He has become part of you. He can do no sin. He only does what’s right and good.

The Spirit gives life; the flesh profits nothing. The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life. ~ John 6:63

You can’t reform your carnal nature. Your carnal nature must die. It must fade away.

The Christ in you can do no sin. Christ, Who is born within you, can’t sin. You must identify with Christ and not with your fallen fleshly nature.

Those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh; but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace, ~ Romans 8:5-6

Friday’s Featured FREE Book: “The Nuts and Bolts of Being Rational”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/the-nuts-and-bolts-of-being-rational/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, can this work to bring life to your church? Could this grow your church and bring a new level of unity and maturity to your members? Take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different. Don’t fear to probe and listen. Lies self-destruct if you can get them to expose themselves.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

Your ministry is Christ in you. It has nothing to do with your carnal nature.

Wednesday’s Featured FREE Book: “Exposing the Real Creation-Evolution Debate”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/exposing-the-real-creation-evolution-debate/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different.  Never be afraid to ask someone with a godless argument how they know. If what they say isn’t true, they can’t give you a rational answer. They expose the foolishness of the lie when they try to give a reason for the lie.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/

If you are born again, you are a ministry.
The ministry is Christ in you.
It has nothing to do with your carnal nature.

You HAVE a carnal nature, but you ARE the Christ within.
(Quote from https://realreality.org/downloads/how-god-will-transform-you/)

Paul said he does what he doesn’t want to do and doesn’t do what he does want to do. When he does what he doesn’t want to do, he agrees with the Law that it’s good. That means Paul doesn’t do the sin, but sin that dwells within Paul does the sinful acts.

Paul didn’t identify with his carnal nature. And neither should you identify with your carnal nature. You HAVE a carnal nature, but you ARE the Christ within. Your carnal nature is no better than mine. Your carnal nature isn’t sort of bad. It’s evil. It’s wicked. The carnal nature you have can do no righteousness. It can be openly evil or it can be self-righteous, but it can’t please God.

The Spirit of Christ lives in you. He has become part of you. He can do no sin. He only does what’s right and good.

Wednesday’s Featured FREE Book: “Exposing the Real Creation-Evolution Debate”
Download it FREE here: https://realreality.org/exposing-the-real-creation-evolution-debate/

Pastors, teachers, and leaders, take a look at the new class about how to talk about Jesus without getting into arguments. We’ve been taught ways that don’t work. Because of the frustration of doing what doesn’t work, many Christians have just stopped trying to bring others to Christ. This is different.  Never be afraid to ask someone with a godless argument how they know. If what they say isn’t true, they can’t give you a rational answer. They expose the foolishness of the lie when they try to give a reason for the lie.
https://realreality.org/downloads/question-based-conversational-soul-winning/